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Well girls this is my last post , I have come to realize my wife will never accept this part of me & she is starting to have hate in her eyes .
So in an effort to save a marriage i will say goodbye to stephenie .
I personally think i'm only buying some time as my wife has been checking out dating sites & has told me she finding other men attractive so i figure its just a matter of time before i here the i want out words .

Atleast i won't be giving her the crossdresser excuse as to why she is leaving , if that is what she decides to do . For most of our marriage i never really had any say anyways so why i thought she would come around i'll never no.
I'll miss chatting with you's & reading your stories about your life . To the ones here who have a So that is supportive , you are truely blessed .
I took all my clothes to the clothing drop off boxes ,& shoes & threw out my wigs & make-up .
The last three years with stephenie has been wonderful , i have met some people whom , even i would have judged but now i have learned there are accepting people in this world & i was taught not to look on the outside but when to the inside shows out .
I'll miss every one , Hugs & goodbye Stephenie g

Hi Stephenie,

We are so sorry for your travails. As you are aware some of us have travelled the same road and it has some interesting twists and turns.

The bottom line is that if you are truly -my words - blessed with our gift, you have to know, it never goes away!!! OH, you can ignore it, repress it, suppress it and some have actually pushed it into the background and took it to the grave with them, but it is and will always be there.

Again we are sorry you have having to live this difficulty, but we will be here for you and keep a candle burning in the window should providence prevail.

Love,

Virginia

Hay Stephenie,

I see nothing wrong with you posting now and again, your wife is unhappy with CDing, surely not your e-mail habits.

What ever you do and the best of luck hon with the marriage.

Dear Stephenie

I am sorry that things have turned out this way. I will always be your friend so don't hesitate to get in touch with me if you need an ear.

Susan

Good luck on your endevours, Hope you find happiness and work out your relationship. Keep us in mind and write if you feel the need to talk.

Hi Stephenie--
I wish you motivation in your path, whatever it turns out to be. As you say, you may find out that your CDing is not the major problem.

Dear Stephanie:
May you go in peace and find your lifes fulfillment and dreams

Good luck Stephenie.
Kay

dear Steph. I hope this works out and you find happiness and peace, but bottom line is purging does not work and the need and desire to express your feminine side will never go away only growing stronger as you get older. HUgzzzz Jean Marie

I wish you all the best and hope all works out for you. I can only speak pesonnally when I say if I got rid of all my clothes today I know I'd be out shopping for dresses and skirts tomorow. The urge is far too strong, it will never lessen or go away. That's why I decided many years ago to embrace my CDing instead of denying it.

Its sad to see you go ,does you wife really love you or does she just want to find someone else.I tried to get rid of Sandra Jane I throw everything away dresses underwear the lot because I did not want my wife to find out.I stopped posting on a differant crossdresser forum about one year a go.Sandra Jane has come back I could not stop her I tried and tried but she came back.
I think the same will happen to you.
I wish you all the luck in the world.

I feel for you Steph. I wish things could work out between you and her. But remember, you have friends here to help support you. Wish you well.

I do hope things work out better for the two of you. There was a time with my wife I wondered if I would be coming home to an empty house or have my bags packed and waiting for me. I was lucky that both my wife and I wanted to make it work. IMHO that is very key. It was not easy and still is not at times. But when both are willing to work at it has a great way of making it.

Kim
joe in a skirt

Stephenie

I'm so sad to hear of what you're going through. I know how not getting any kind of support from the person closest to you can leave you feeling isolated and feeling like you have no choice but to send Stephenie away. As others have said, I suspect she may simply be looking for a convenient way out if it does comes to that. I hope it won't for your sake and you guys can work things out.

If it's not meant to be and you do end up going your separate ways, then I would hope you will feel an even greater need to want to stay here among friends. You have many here rooting for you, you can be sure of that. I think you also know that Stephenie will most likely be back again someday and depending on where you are in your life, you can be sure she'll bring back some of that happiness you're missing right now.

Best of luck and if we're ever in the same neighbourhood, let me know and we can share some girltalk.

Stephanie

Stephanie,

I hate goodbyes, so I will just say, "Until we meet again". It's a small world. I think you should remember though that we can not change for others. Change must come from within. Whenever we try to change for someone else, it's not appreciated and turns to resentment. The sacrifice is not recognized or appreciated.

I will just be frank. If you are not doing this for you, you will be back. Good luck, I hope things work out for you and you find the happiness you are seeking.

Love always,
Elizabeth