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Valerie
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Hi from a newbie

Post by Valerie »

Hi all! I have been CDing for most of my life ( I will explain in another thread ). I am married to a wonderful wife but she doesn't really like me that way. I have read on the net and from a book I purchased about why I'm this way and a few weeks ago tried to have a talk with her on what I found out. She hasn't brought it up so I don't know if she has thought about it. She still loves me and I do her. Looking for some place to go,I found this forum. Looking over some of the posts,I decided to stick around. It is nice knowing I am not alone and there are others like me. Hope this helps me and maybe her ( after I tell her I registered, :oops: ).

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Post by Beauty »

Hi Valerie,

Welcome to the forum! :) Even if your wife didn't accept it at least you came clean. A lot of people can't, for various reasons, tell their wives. So I applaud you for doing something despite the fact that it's not working out. :? I really hope things get better. [-o<

It's good to have you here and I can't wait to read more about you. :)
-wel-
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Post by Danette »

Hi Valerie,
I think I talk to you in the chat room Sat. nite, :-k but welcome to the forum.I hope you and your wife come to terms. I'm shur you both like it here.

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Danette @->->-



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Post by Virginia »

Hi Valerie,
I agree with my sister, Beauty, at least you came out to your wife, that is a major hurdle for a lot of our sisters. We are here to support each other so we hope you stick around a participate with us!
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Post by Kyra »

Hi Valerie,
Welcome to the forum. I felt a lot like you when I first joined this group over a year ago. (!) I was astonished at how many others there were who were, for all intents and purposes, just like me! It kinda diminishes the feeling of being alone in this big ol' mixed up crazy world, huh.

Well, I just wanted to say hi, and let you know that you're not alone. We're here for you. There's a warm and comforting feeling that I get just knowing my forum sisters are around.

Enjoy. ..o)..
Hugs,
Kyra
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Valerie
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Post by Valerie »

Thanks for making me feel at ease here. I am sure that I will use this as an outlet for some of my thoughts and feelings. Still unsure as to what extent my wife feels about it. Guess you could say,"Out of sight,Out of mind" might be here opinion :lol: . At least I am not alone feeling this way,as I am finding out. Thanks.
Valerie

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