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A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2014 6:38 pm
by Rachel A.
I'm new to cd-haven and also to "real" cross-dressing. Since I was a teen (50 years ago!), when alone I would "borrow" my mother's clothes and then my wife's. My wife knew my interest but it was occasional and not obtrusive. Now, though, I am expressing my feminine side more fully. A year ago I started wearing panties all the time and a nighty to bed. (Oooh, does that feel goooood!!!) My wife was OK with that. I moved on to painted toe nails, which my wife was OK with as long as I wore socks or slippers inside and my toes were not exposed outside. Now, I have started my own wardrobe. I want to come out. My wife is struggling with this, understandably. I am en femme now as she is out with a friend. I'm not really looking for advice, more to vent, as my wife's and my different perspectives on CDing is the big issue. i suspect I am not alone, nor is she.
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Thu Dec 11, 2014 9:10 pm
by Anita
Hello, Rachel--
Welcome to the board. There is a lot of info here on couples dealing with this, as well as support for your spouse, if she wants to use it.
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2014 12:02 am
by SilverLady(SO)
Hi, Rachel, and welcome to the Haven!
Ditto what Anita said . . . your wife (SO) is welcome and encouraged to join for support, too.
- SL
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2014 12:54 am
by Leeza
Hi Rachel
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2014 3:20 am
by Kelly
Hi Rachel,
Welcome. Glad you have joined up. Vent all you want, I have and it helps.
Kelly.
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2014 3:27 am
by Carol Esme
Hello and welcome Rachel.
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2014 4:18 am
by Requal Jo
Hi Rachel. Welcome to this happy and friendly Haven of wonderful people. I can understand your wife's concerns as will my wife is accepting of Requal, she still remains somewhat apprehensive.
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2014 10:54 am
by Robyn
Hi Rachel,
I'm new here as well, and I've found that it's a very comfortable place to start letting myself open up
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2014 2:28 pm
by TiffanyAnne_Williams
Hello and welcome!
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2014 9:16 pm
by Nicole Rose
Hi Rachel,
to the haven, lots of help here for you and your wife. Hope you find some answers here, their are lots og great girls to help you.
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Sat Dec 13, 2014 5:57 am
by Martha G
Hi there Rachel!
Welcome!
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Sat Dec 13, 2014 10:48 am
by Domonique
Hi Rachel,
to the Haven.
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Sat Dec 13, 2014 2:32 pm
by Cynthia Sloan
Hi Rachel!! Welcome and good luck!!
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Mon Dec 15, 2014 5:43 pm
by DonnaT
Hi Rachel,
aboard.
Re: A Newbie Hello!
Posted: Mon Dec 15, 2014 9:05 pm
by Carly
Welcome Rachel,
Be happy your wife is as accepting as she is. Baby steps and don't push her. What I would give to have the amount of acceptance you already have.