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Sigh...I never know what to say when I introduce myself.

My name is Jassmine:) I am Ahzz's wife. Oh yes, he is an interesting fellow, alright;) LOL:) We are both cat and ferret people, oh heck, we pretty much dig all things fuzzy...lol!! Our critter family consits of 6 cats: Spook, Sed, Psycho, Killer, Rigor, and Mortis. The 3 ferrets are: Lady Guinevere, King Arthur, and Sir Lancelot. Hmmmm......What else...Ah, a little info on how we met: I went out to a local night club (my first time there), made it on to the dance floor, now I SWEAR, Ahzz appeared in front of me from nowhere! On second noone was dancing next to me, the next second, WHOA!!:) Love at first sight. I totally blame fate...lol. As he mentioned I was quite turned on by his cross dressing. There is just something so sexy about a man in a dress:) Or other women's apparal, for that matter. Tim Curry looked so stunning in Rocky Horror...Oh my ##oo## I do get a bit miffed when Ahzz borrows my clothes, though. Need to get him some of his own:) Other than that I have no real issues with his cross dressing.

Ok, I have rambled on enough:) I am very happy to be a part of this awesome family!!:) Have a groovy day, everyone!

Hi Jassmine,

to the forum. Loved your intro.

You and Ahzz should fit right in here.

Hi Jassmine,

Great to have you here, you and Ahzz sound quite a team.

Best wishes
Rebecca xxx

Rebecca wrote:Hi Jassmine,

Great to have you here, you and Ahzz sound quite a team.

Best wishes
Rebecca xxx

heh, at a friend's wedding we were accused of being married after dating for only 2 months.
and friends STILL say we make them sick at times.

Hi Jassmine!!

Welcome to the group! The two of you sound like an amazing duo! I bet you are both alot of fun to be around!

Hugs,
Stef

Hi Jassmine,

to our world.

Hi, Jassmine!!!

You sound like a very lucky couple!

Take Care
Angie

Hi Jassmine,

I really happy you posted the way you did. What I mean is lots of women out there are afraid to admit that they are attracted to men who dress like women and look sexy or pretty.

Good for you!!!

Welcome to the forum! It's a pleasure to have you with us.

Beauty

Great to see you here. Your man is very lucky to have you and very lucky to have a special man.
Welcome.

I want to thank all y'all for the very warm welcomes

I am happy you enjoyed my intro, CDKathy I am never quite sure what to say about myself. I have a vast array of interests and hobbies. Everything from anthroplogy to zoology

Rebecca, Thank ya kindly Tee hee, yeah we are something else alright...LOL!! Sssshhhh....Don't tell anyone, but Ahzz and I are out to conquere the world;);) In the best kind of way, with lots of love and understanding

Ok, the whole thing with the wedding Ahzz and I attended was just plain weird....I didn't believe him until a few people said the very same thing to me! Freaky mon, freaky...

Stef, Thanketh thee Yeah, Ahzz and I just love to be silly:) We firmly believe that playing and having a great time is the best way to stay young at heart.

Thanks Darlene It is indeed a pleasure to be here

Angie, yeah we consider ourselves very fortunate to have each other. I feel the secrets to a great relationship of any kind are: honesty, a wide open line of communication, and last but probably the most important is knowing and accepting who you are. That self knowledege and acceptance goes a long way towards being able to accept others for who they are.

Beauty, thank you I wish to pass on a very valuable lesson my father taught me....Be yourself, people will either like you or hate you, if they hate you, it's THEIR loss:) I was always picked on and harrassed all through school. Shrug, I really don't know why, maybe becuase I was different from everybody else. Those words my father imparted to me gave me the strength and the confidence to get through it. Ah, and the secret to a happy life....Know thyself and to thine ownself be true It really does work


Well, it be getting late here, so I shall say goodnight.
Thanks again, everyone

Jassmine(SO) wrote: Stef, Thanketh thee Yeah, Ahzz and I just love to be silly:) We firmly believe that playing and having a great time is the best way to stay young at heart.

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Beauty, thank you I wish to pass on a very valuable lesson my father taught me....Be yourself, people will either like you or hate you, if they hate you, it's THEIR loss:) I was always picked on and harrassed all through school. Shrug, I really don't know why, maybe becuase I was different from everybody else. Those words my father imparted to me gave me the strength and the confidence to get through it. Ah, and the secret to a happy life....Know thyself and to thine ownself be true It really does work

Silly? I'm just BIZZARRE baby!

Sma deal here. Though I'll add that I was always driven to understand and believe that when you set out to do something with your entire being, and you are doing right, nothing will stop you.

(lots of people I have run into need to learn this one)

And from dear ol' Mom, She taught me that if you can look at things from both sides of the disagreement, then you can always come out ahead and squeaky clean, because NEITHER side is ever truly 100% at fault.

TaraCD wrote:Great to see you here. Your man is very lucky to have you and very lucky to have a special man.
Welcome.

Hi TaraCD,

Sorry I missed thanking you in my earlier post


You may whip me with a wet noodle as punishment for my oversight;)


Thank you I couldn't agree more Ahzz and I do consider ourselves very lucky. We both had our share of failed relationships before we met. Both of us learned a valuable lesson or 3 from each one, that enabled us to know when we finally got it right So, while I still blame fate for setting us up;) LOL It took a lot of work on both of our parts, to become who each of us is today.

Thanks again

Hi Jassmine, well as I am famous for I'm a day late and a dollar short in welcoming you to the forum. I agree with my sisters as you and Ahzz sound as if you two were ment for each other. I'm so happy that you accept Ahzz crossdressing as I know it does make life a lot happyer. Looking forward to hearing from you two again Carol Ann

Jasmine and Ahzz's, You two sound like hoot, Please tell us more of life together soon. Both of you are so at ease with yourselves and each other. Thanks for being here, I look forward to hearing of your ecapades. ..........Kristen

Thanks Carol Ann Ahzz and I are indeed birds of the same feather;) Loons, that is...lol!!! Ah, I learned at a very young age that the only way to have good relationships of any sort, is to accept the other person for who they are. It helped me get through and cope with my parents very messy and rather ugly divorce. I also learned early on in the, that you cannot change a person. You can only change yourself I feel that for a relationship to work that each person must love and accept the other unconditionally. If that cannot be done, then the relationship will not last. It cannot. Putting conditons on , trying to control another or attempting to change the other, will only lead to heartache for both people. Sigh....Seen it and lived it. My ex husband was a jealous, control freak. He could not accept me for who I am, strong, independent, and confident. As you can see I needed to get out of that relationship. Ahzz accepts and loves me unconditionally, too That is the secret to our happiness

Ah, Kristen, 'tis indeed a pleasure to be here And believe it or not, Ahzz and I have been accused of bineg a hoot, many a time...lol Yeah, we are at ease with ourselves. It took a lot of hard work to get here, though. Getting to know yourself and learning what you can and cannot change about yourself is difficult but well worth the effort Of course making those changes one can make can also be quite the challenge. One must also learn to deal with ones past and present issues, learn the "why" or cause of the issue, accept the answer, and then just let it go. I know, easier said than done But, once you reach self acceptance, accepting others as is, is a piece of cake Of course, you will be learning new things about yourself and running into new issues on pretty much a daily basis, so it is indeed an on going journey, and quite the adventure;) Hmmmm....as to our escapades, and I must be getting senile in my young age;) , I cannot think of one at the moment When I do I shall post This is your first and only warning...lol!!

Take care and have a fabolishous Friday!! ##oo##