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Some background:

I am 20 years old. I'm in college right now, but at the end of this term, which will be pretty soon, I will be taking a year off. In case you're curious, it's to give a career goal time to form, but that's beside the point. I live at home with my parents when not in college, and starting next month they will be charging me rent, and I will be working full-time or nearly so to pay it.

I am a private crossdresser. I like to wear the clothes because it turns me on. Here's the extent: I'm neck-down, but I do use breast forms and tape down my johnson. (I'm not sure what language is appropriate here, so I'm playing it safe.) I also shave my arms and legs. Most of the clothes I wear would be considered slutty, if not indecent.

Nevertheless, I do not feel like dressing full-time or getting a sex change. If anything, I would want to be able to just change into a woman for a few hours, then change back. This is why I'm using my male name here.

, Daniel!!

Welcome to the forum Daniel.

Hi Daniel !

I´m sure you won´t be trolled to death here One reason why I like this place so much is that it is moderated. There has been some bickering which words are allowed here and which aren´t but I think moderating is necessary to keep this forum clean.



Joanna

Dear Daniel,

Welcome aboard! Everyone here is wonderful both the CDer's and the SO's. Grab a coffee and jump right in. Yes, the board is moderated ( who do a great job and who are wonderful people I might add) but we are all an open bunch, so make yourself comfy and jump on in.

Sinjoy(so)

Glad your here this is a great forum The best I have been on ..Sallee

Hi Daniel,

I can partly agree with your post. I am also not interested in OP or in dressing full time. But having the possibility to change my appearance from male to female makes me more happy. For me it is not for sexual arousal, but it is simply comfy for the female part of me. I am more or less transgendered and I think about myself as being male and female in one (male) person. By CDing I can satisfy my female part. Both "parts" (not to be seen as seperate parts, but as two halves that makes up the whole personality) want to show up in my life and so I do. By letting my female part express herself I learned that combining two parts results in more than just the sum of two parts. By accepting my female part I learned a lot about me and I became more open-minded and so I think I grew a little bit.

BTW - Right? You are Daniel from the CDDF? Don't get me wrong I don't pre-justice. I just have read your farewell post there.