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Is Sexual Reassignment Surgery something you'd seriously consider, are you holding out for improvements in the state of the art, or are you content the way you are? Everyone's answer will be complicated by relationships, by work, etc. Try to pick the answer that you think actually makes sense for you with only two changes from your real world situation: cost is no object, and the techniques available are as described in each option.

OOOPS! Typo in the first choice, should be "exist"!


{Typo corrected by SL, Site Admin, on 05-01-2007}

Well, on the CD Continuum my inner woman rules!!!!!
Love,
Virginia

It is all about being me. I am happy being male and love the feel of fem clothes

I'm happy the way I am so long as I have my makeup and clothes.

I'm happy as things are.

How I feel inside counts most, and I'm happy with how I feel. Sometimes it's frustrating that others don't seen the pretty girl inside, and at those times I yearn for a beautiful body with sweet luscious breasts, and long hair that blows in the wind....so that others could see my joy.

xoxo chrissie

I'm not a woman, and have no desire to be a woman more than it might be fun for a few days just to see what it's like. Wearing a dress for me is a male thing.

Absaroka

Guess I'm totally selfish and want it all, female, femme clothing, and my boy-side too. Total Renaissance kind of person I guess. Can change the oil, and walk well in heels. Just have a problem in running my hose.

Rikki

I'm happy the way I am so long as I have the clothes of choice which would be a mix of male and female. You can have the makeup.

KimberlyS-CD
joe in a skirt

I agree with Rikki! I want it all female and male! If I could have my face done and a boob job, that would be okay...just leave my old seargent sitting on his two duffel bags alone! Thank you very much.

Besides, when the wife is away I could still enjoy boobs if I had them, lol! For me SRS is not a destination or a journey; being female and male and getting to express and experience them both is the great joy for me.

I went out riding my harley today and enjoyed it immensely as a man. Then came home and put on my panties and open toe shoes and enjoyed the evening as a woman. Who wants it all...I do.

Love and kisses

Darlene

I agree with Rikki: I want to do what I want as a male repairing most things and riding my motorcycle when I get another past my wife. An then dresses in my other world of clothes as I feel the need and the wife is no where around. Gee.

While I posted the poll and voted, I realize now that I never really commented on my own feelings! The poll results have been fascinating, though, and even as I expected those interested in SRS to be a minority I must admit I didn't expect the results to be as definitive as they are.

I'm in the "I'd like to try being a GG" category. My dream would be having two bodies to choose between for the mood and occasion - just like having a change of clothes to wear only deeper. I think I'd even like them both to share the same genetic code with one obvious difference. I'm not trying to be someone else, just me.

... but would I commit to a one-way change? No. As curious as I am about life from the other side I'm not unhappy the way I am, and I know Kiera is rather fond of my current blend of masculine and feminine. No, I'm holding out for reliable, reversible magic - and I'm not holding my breath.

I'm happy with the way I am, although at times I wish that I could be GG for at least a short while. But, definately would have to be able to return to my normal male body.

Alana

I'm still in the infancy of my conscious realization of this gift, and am thoroughly in its grasp at this point. But I would have to admit that although I don't hate my male pieces, I've never felt like they were really me. I am constantly shocked when I look in a mirror or see a picture of myself - it takes me a second to recognize that the person I'm seeing is me, because it just doesn't match the mental image or how I feel. And when I do recognize myself, a profound sadness washes over me. Absolutely none of my hobbies or interests are stereotypically male, and I've never felt like one of the guys. If I could flip a switch and be a GG, I'd be all over that - no regrets. It's the slow change and the negative social impact (friends, family, career) that is holding me back... Only time will tell where my journey leads.

SRS is definitely not for me, but living as the woman I've always felt I am is very important.