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Hi girls

Firstly, I would like to say this is a huge relief (understatement) to talk to others like myself, who love cross dressing. I have been cross dressing since about the age of ten and nearly 35 years in the closet now, although I cannot really remember how it started, other than trying on my mothers clothes.
I am happily married, but my wife does not know my secert and probably never will. I often feel guilty keeping such a secret, and sometimes I feel like screaming because of living a such lie, but I don't think my wife would understand.
Having said that, I did go out dressed up once, about 12 years ago to a tarts and tramps night. My wife did my make-up and I went the whole hog silk panties, stockings and suspenders etc. All the other guys there asked, if I had not gone to over the top in my dressing up (not for me). I didn't want the experience to end, but what really made the night for me was one of the wives not realizing who I was, called me a miserable bitch for some reason.
Thanks for listening, it feels great to have talked about my cross dressing for the first time in 35 years.
Also, looking foward to talking about lots of girlie things in the future.

Charlotte (New member)

Welcome to the Forum Charlotte.

So, what did your wife have to say about your tarts night out? Did she have problems with it, would you be able to do it again with her help?

That might have been a good time to tell her.

Hi DonnaT

It was a long time ago, but if I remember at the evenings end it was something like; OK been there done it and it was a laugh, but never to be repeated. I later tried to get her intrested in a venue that held regular vicer and tarts nights, in an effort to gauge her reaction and this went down like a lead balloon. Thus, I chickened out and no more was said on the subject and the rest is history.
I still count myself lucky though, having read some of the other girls stories on how little time they get to cross dress. I do shift work and with the wife at work during the day, I get to play quite regulary.

Charlotte