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After reading a lot of the questions in this particular forum, I was wondering what if anything a GG and SO would find particularly enjoyable and maybe rewarding about your partner's crossdressing or time you may spend with him enfemme?

That is a very good question that I am amazed that has not been asked before.

First it was fun to see Melyssa evolve. All GGs should remember discovering make-up, hair styles, putting together outfits, shoes, etc. CDers learn faster and do go through the teenage years, the shock years, the early 20s etc. That can be a little scary but still fun. Be kind but be honest.

We do everything together that BFFs do. We've been to high tea at Blue in Milwaukee at the Pfister Hotel. We golf. We shop, go to plays, dine out, go to the zoo, travel and all from Melyssa's perspective.

She loves to try on clothes so that she does alone. I hate trying on clothes and know my sizes - she fluctuates.

We watch chick flicks at home or at the movies together. She remembers kleenex and gum which I always forget <G>!!

Initially we dressed up once a month for an Impromtu Gourmet meal however now we dress up and go out to dinner to restaurants typically geared more to women.

Tonight we'll be out to dinner and then to see Fiddler on the Roof. She has never not passed and is typically more appropriate than I am in any questionable situation but that's the difference in our personalities.

We have PJ parties and swap "war" stories from when we were young. Of course when Melyssa is not en femme he's my BFF so all of this is probably much easier and fun than for most. We do not compete for male attention since neither of us seeks it. I have my man and it's not why Melyssa dresses.

I hope this helps and I hope that the GGs and SOs that can, do have fun with their men en femme. There is so much you can do at home to have fun if going out is not an option. Happy to discuss.

Stormy

I would say that while it is a struggle at times it has brought my H and I closer. We communicate much more effectively and dedicate more time to each other.

I think what I enjoy most is that this is something that has brought us closer together. We have started a blog about our experiences and have a daily journal that we share and talk about.

Also, I'm starting to enjoy the shopping a lot... and we're going to do makeup this weekend, so I'm beyond thrilled about that!

-Jen

Jen- I deffinitely know how that feels; it's really thrilling.
I think that when he's dressed in something hot (especially if it's something that I chose for him)he becomes a lott more affectionate, more passionate-it's really cute and then I feel I've dome something right

I like it because he's more relaxed and gentle when he's dressed.
Bedroom time is more fun too, as he's always very turned on (*blush*)