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When I first joined this forum I basically was a man who occasionally dressed as a woman for costume parties.

However since I have joined the forum and the discussions I feel that I have become more feminine and womanlike.

Part of it is that I make a very passible woman and fairly attractive as well when dressed. Also look about 15 years younger.

My voice comes close to that of being a woman, just needs a little more feminization..

My goal is to dress and act like a realistic mature woman.

If I accomplish this, I will just love to go to libraries and coffee shops, and maybe even shopping.

Dressing as a woman relaxes me and sheds stress which I have had major problems with all my life. It's worth dressing as a woman if for nothing else!

Do you girls think that I have made progress?

Should I go for the golden ring? If so how far should I go.

Would to love to hear your answers. Let it rip! This girl can take it!

Oh My!

Thanks in advance.

Martha

Now Martha, we both know you love to present as authentic as possible for any character you portray. I still think you're in CD denial . So go for it! Dress as the nice mature woman you present as and go window shopping, stop for lunch, check out the library, whatever.

Eileen

Martha,

Good for you girl and sure enjoy your female self.
I agree with you dressing does release stress I enjoy it so much and so anxious about my next outing.

Yes Martha,
Work your stuff girl. Nothing relaxes Shayla more than wearing the prettiest, silky dresses and strutting her stuff. One of my goals to is to pass as a mature sexy(but classy) woman.

Oh Thanks so much for the encouragement ladies.

To go out as a realistic and attractive mature lady in both dress and action is my goal.

Martha, you know your post and our other messages always make me smile! I love your attitude, outlook, and indecision, lol. From your pictures I've never seen you wear anything inappropriate, and yes you've progressed a bit too. However, I don't think you should get to hung up on trying to perfect your womanly presentation. Yes, physical appearance is vital, but we don't wake up in the morning as genetic woman, so "acceptance" of being a crossdresser helps.

When I'm out I don't really try to disguise my voice. As a matter of fact, no one in our TG group or the majority of the other CD/TG ladies I've been around completely sound like woman. Given that, I never have had a problem either. From a distance I may be passable, but when you interact with me close up it's not hard to tell I'm a male, and the result has always been a lot of fun. A little smile combined with a playful yet confident attitude goes a long way. In fact, some of the most fun I've had was when a middle aged lady gets up close to me and says "you're a guy, right"... and then proceeds to compliment me on my dress. (That has happened more than once.)

The key is to have fun. If dressing is an uncomfortable experience then we wouldn't do it, right. So get out there to that library or coffee shop already. Go for it Sweetie!!!

Why thank you sweetie for your kind words and encouragement.

Go girl go. Be confident and stand by your desires. Go and do as you please. Enjoy being Martha.