I'm new to this site...(wife of a cd)

Love (SO) · Post by **Love (SO)** » Fri Feb 06, 2004 3:28 pm

Hello,
I've been trying to find a site for wives of CDer's.
I have just found out from my husband that he CD's.
I'm very confused.

Alexandra · Post by **Alexandra** » Fri Feb 06, 2004 5:05 pm

Hi and welcome!

Feel free to post any questions you have in the SO section and other SO's will be glad to answer any questions/concerns you have. You're not alone here.

GalicianGirl(SO) · Post by **GalicianGirl(SO)** » Fri Feb 06, 2004 6:30 pm

Hi Love,
Welcome to our forum. It's great to have another SO join our little group.

You have definitely come to the right place. Our forum is a very open and friendly place and the members are just fantastic. I hope you will feel right at home here.

Like Alexandra has stated, we do have a special section for just SO's. Feel free to ask questions, we're all here to learn and help one another and have some fun from time to time.

Sharon(SO)

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Fri Feb 06, 2004 7:34 pm

Hi,

I hope you enjoy the SO section. There you can just talk with other SO's with zero interuption from the CDs on the forum.

I hope this helps you and that you understand your husband is normal. He just wears femme clothing.
Best of fortune.

Beauty

CJ · Post by CJ » Fri Feb 06, 2004 7:59 pm

Hi Love,

Welcome to the forum!

We have the most friendly and helpful group of gals here. I think that, if you but ask them, they may be able to hand you a thread to help you find your way through the emotional labyrinth. As suggested above, post in the SO section of the forum.

Again, Love, welcome! I wish you strength and courage for the journey ahead.

Love,
CJ

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Fri Feb 06, 2004 8:40 pm

Hi Love

to the forum, as you can see you will fit right in here as we have the best bunch of GG anywhere. I understand your shock of finding out your husband is a crossdresser as I still remember the look and the speechless wife. Time,trust,and love will all come into play.

Carol Ann

LeftyRainbow(SO) · Post by **LeftyRainbow(SO)** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 10:22 am

Welcome Love

Hope you feel at home soon and we can help ease some of your confusion

Lefty

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 11:25 am

I think it's cool that Love showed up so close to Valentine's Day?!?

Maybe it's a good omen for Love's relationship with her SO.

Beauty

Stephanie Higgins · Post by **Stephanie Higgins** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 6:27 pm

Welcome to the forum Love..
It is nice to have another SO around

Stephanie Higgins

Amber(SO) · Post by **Amber(SO)** » Sat Feb 07, 2004 10:12 pm

Love,
Welcome to the forum.

We have several wives/SOs that are on this site often. I found out about my hubby's CDing about a month ago myself (after 14 years marriage!) At first, I just accepted it and thought it was kind of fun. Now, I'm kind of confused myself, and depressed. I thought our relationship was so perfect, then I felt angry that he lied to me for so long. I guess now I'm to the point of realizing that I should be thankful for my blessings. I love him no matter what, and if this is what he needs to feel complete, then I will support him.

I am sure you will probably go through many emotions before you come to terms with this part of your husband. We will be there to support you, and lend you an ear. Be strong and remember what you truly love him for.

Welcome, and feel free to talk to us anytime.
XOXO, Amber

Love (SO) · Post by **Love (SO)** » Mon Feb 09, 2004 7:22 pm

Hello again everyone

Thank you all for the warm welcome.
I'll try to open up and post in a little while.
I have been having a rough couple of days.
Some times I done know if I'm coming or going.
I'm just trying to keep myself busy, not to think about all of this...
but, it seems this is all that I can think about right now.
I think that I'm in the grieving stage...sometimes even a bit angry too.
When I'm up to it, I'll post in the SO forum.

Thank you all again

Love

GalicianGirl(SO) · Post by **GalicianGirl(SO)** » Mon Feb 09, 2004 7:36 pm

Hi Love(SO),

Whenever you feel more comfortable in talking, we'll all be here to help you in any way we can...

Just remember, all of us SO's have been through what you are going through in some form or another.

Hope we hear from you real soon...

Sharon(SO)

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Tue Feb 10, 2004 6:36 am

Hi Sharon,

That was so incredibly loving.

You gals really have a sisterhood that transcends so much. I can't express in words how beautiful the shoulder you offered to Love was.

Love, I hope things do get better for you and I also hope you talk to other SO's. They will help you. My prayers are with you.

Beauty

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Tue Feb 10, 2004 1:07 pm

Hi Love,
As I said before I understand your feelings and your plite. Please post in the SO section of this forum and I know you will get anwsers to many of your question from other wives who have gone through this same situation. My love to you, Carol Ann

Carolynn · Post by **Carolynn** » Tue Feb 10, 2004 10:34 pm

Hello Love (SO). I am also glad to welcome you to this forum, and do believe that you will find the support and advice you need from the other SOs. And if the CDs can add anything, I know you will get their respectful response as well. Again, please feel welcome.