Hi Lorna.

I guess there are several. One new (to me) fav is:
"What A Good Boy" by Barenaked Ladies
When I was born, they looked at me and said
what a good boy, what a smart boy, what a strong boy.
And when you were born, they looked at you and said,
what a good girl, what a what a smart girl, what a pretty girl.
We've got these chains that hang around our necks,
people want to strangle us with them before we take our first breath.
Afraid of change, afraid of staying the same,
when temptation calls, we just look away.
I wake up scared, I wake up strange.
I wake up wondering if anything in my life is ever going to change.
I wake up scared, I wake up strange
and everything around me stays the same.
I couldn't tell you that I was wrong,
chickened out, grabbed a pen and paper, sat down and I wrote this song.
I couldn't tell you that you were right,
so instead I looked in the mirror,
watched TV, laid awake all night.
We've got these chains, hang'in round our necks,
people want to strangle us with them before we take our first breath.
Afraid of change, afraid of staying the same when temptation calls ...
I guess it just reflects some of where I am right now.
All my life I've been told that I'm "(fill in the blanK)'s big BOY", (fill in the blank)'s very good BOY, such a good BOY" and every time part of me inside has shriveled and writhed in pain and wanted to scream, and I've never been able to say, "NO, don't you call me that"!!

Even this last weekend my 84 years-old mother, with love in her eyes, assured me I was "her big old dependable BOY", and it hurt just as much as it always has. Strange, huh?
The other, oddly enough, is "Into the West" by Annie Lennox from the LOTR: The Return of the King. Guarranteed tears from me for some reason.
Love,
"It’s not given to anyone to have no regrets; only to decide, through the choices we make, which regrets we’ll have,"
David Weber – In Fury Born