how do i take the next step..??????

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Claire
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how do i take the next step..??????

Post by Claire »

Hi girls,

Nice to be back took some time off and had a little break just to relax and chill my high heel boots. :) . My SO has became more and more understanding recently about what I do and she now likes to do my makeup on a regular basis, put false nails on me and paint them etc, even choose which underwear would look good on me when we are out shopping. she lets me wear my nightdress to bed and does not give it a second thought so all is going very very well or better than i had ever expected. BUT....

She said as long as no-one knows what I do its fine and I can do what i like as it is not hurting anyone. she lets me wear her tight jeans out, her tops or my own depending my bra pantyhose, panties even sensible shoes and tennis shoes. she will even go sa far as to let me wear eye liner, mascara, and light lip gloss when i am out with her. i have just saw a wig which i like, long redhead one which is a bargain for $16 or about £8. but i was so tempted to buy it, though i dont know how she will react to it as it would be virtually completing the new me as it were. I have no idea what she will say and am scared it could make her think this is the last straw...

any ideas how to approach this please

love and peace
Claire
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Post by Honey(SO) »

WEll Claire, it seems that your SO is comfortable and accepting with your fem side. Since communication is so important here, just ask her about her feelings on a wig. Maybe take her with you to see it before you buy it and get her opinion on it that way she gets her imput.
As accepting as she is it will probably be just fine, but it is always nice to be asked first.
The first wig my husband got was bought by me, he thought I would be upset about it too, we looked at catalogs together and picked one out he keep putting off ordering it so I just did it and surprised him. He has bought 2 more since with my help, both Auburn and long. Suite her to a tee!
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Post by Virginia »

Claire, Honey just remember our motto, "Small steps honey, small steps!"
And as Honey said, communication is essential!
Enjoy your "Magical Mystery Tour" and we hope your SO continues on your journey with you.
Love,
Virginia
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