What would you do?

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Would you be 100% accepting if your wife dressed as a man, had hair like a man, wore a strap-on all the time (even to bed) because she liked it and it made her happy? And you have no bisexual or gay tendencies!

Yes
18
39%
No
8
17%
Don't know
4
9%
Put limitations on it
16
35%
 
Total votes: 46
Merinda
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Post by Merinda »

I honestly cant answer the question ,

I would have to experiance the situation to make a judgement , however to make a stand against it would classify me as hypocritical.
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Rebecca_Lynn
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Post by Rebecca_Lynn »

ConnieLynn wrote:I say yes, because My wife, (Lil One) Sue, is basically a F to M cd anyway. She is much more comfortable in pants and tshirts than I am.

She has said that soem times she would rather BE a male than female.
And I am the oppisite a lot of the time, so I reckon, we's just trade roles.

Connie
I can kindof relate. Last night while my SO and I were getting ready for bed ( I gave her a nice lined long sleeve nightgown since she was cold at night) we were hugging and she tells me that she's always liked guys stuff more than girly things like I wear. We had a chuckle over what seems to be a somewhat switched realtionship. Who knows maybe we are both coming to terms with our innermost feelings and who we both are. SO far everything seems to mesh really well too. :)
Gelinda
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Post by Gelinda »

I am so glad I will never have to face this thought.

I am not very open to the not norm. But yet I am not norm.

Oh the puzzle of life. To be or not to be maybe death be the answer to

the next world of not worry.

o the world we live in and for



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Virginia
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Post by Virginia »

I cry everytime I watch "The Swan." To see the transformation in these ladies and know how they must feel to see themselves after the transformation. I can only speak for myself, but I can get a small taste of what they must feel when I look at myself "en drab" then "transform" into Virginia. What a wonderful feeling!
Oh I can not respond to the above survey as well ..... just can not, sorry!
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Laura Ashcroft
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Post by Laura Ashcroft »

I think I could deal with the clothing, even the mannerisms. If they wanted to wear a strap on 100% of the time, I might have trouble with that. I am not gay, or even bi, and as a CDer, I haven't removed my parts or even want to. I know women need the men they marry, and vicea versa. I have had a woman do the strap on thing, and it ain't all that bad, but every night? Might get old. Variety is the spice of life, no?
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Post by Hope »

Girls, If CD'ers strap on fake breasts, why on earth would be be upset if the tables were turned as suggested. For goodness sakes, she would still be the wonderful person I married and am deeply in love with. Heck, it might be fun! She could keep being the guy, I could keep being the girl.....what's bad here?
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Kerri
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Post by Kerri »

Touche monsiour pussy cat!

I couldn't imagine me accepting that. The thought of it fills me with horror. My wife with a strap on todger! No Way.....

Gets you thinking though, Very thought provoking. I'm surprised your not an SO asking a question like that.

:-k

love Kerri
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CJ
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Post by CJ »

Hi all,

I would accept it. Or, at least, try very hard to. I'm just too adventurous, I guess. Love may be a many-splendoured thing, but sex is no less of a multi-faceted jewel. (No, it's her wanting to use my shaving gel and raiding my socks and underwear drawer that would bother me more. :P )

Love,
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Jaye
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Post by Jaye »

CJ wrote:(No, it's her wanting to use my shaving gel and raiding my socks and underwear drawer that would bother me more. :P )
Towards the end of my married life, my wife was trying to put together an outfit so she could go out with her "boyfriend". She was trying to go for a "sexy" look, and thought she'd borrow a pair of my shoes. At the time, I had only two pairs of women's shoes, a very clunky pair of platform sandals (a size too big, but they were on sale!) and a very business-like pair of black pumps. I handed her those, and she told me, "I thought you had sexier shoes than this."

I replied, "I did, but YOU made me throw them away!"
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