The next drawer

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The next drawer

Post by Beauty »

Ok, so lots of you here have had this happen already, but last week I finally had to move my tights and hose to another drawer. It seems my wife has been busier than I thought (purchasing undies for me). :)

I now have 3 drawers of femme things. Socks, undies, and tights and hose are now taking their own drawers. The hose and tights only take up half a drawer right now.

Sheeesh. I can remember when it was in a box. #-o

So, if anyone is interested... have you had this happen and if you have how many drawers do you have full of your femme things (excluding the closet) :wink:

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Post by Loretta Ann »

So, if anyone is interested... have you had this happen and if you have how many drawers do you have full of your femme things (excluding the closet)
Beauty.

Three dressers = 13 drawers.
And if I exclude the closet = 3 additional closets

And am presently in the process of sorting through a bunch more, which will involve getting rid of some as I have no more room. LOL.

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Post by Elizabeth »

Hi Beauty,

I have two drawers.

Darlene,

I am so jealous.

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Post by Gelinda »

Beauty:

Well, as I live by myself while in Kentucky, I had it in a cabinet in the bathroom and part of a drawer in the bathroom.

But my wife was attempting to get a job the first week of this year here in Kentucky so that we could live together again instead of in two houses. PS for those that can't understand what I am saying I work in KY and my wife and family are in Texas. We were going to leave the kids in the house in texas and live here in kentucky were I work.

Well the befodre I left for christmas I put all my stuff up into a box except for a few things my wife knows about me now. She found out while I was living here. She has not had to deal with it in person. As there were too many things going on when she was here looking for a job and the stress of that I left the CD of me in my closet. I still have a huge fear of what she thinks about me this way, but come May I will have been Married 25 years. I know she loves me and will set the ground rules with her help.

I have been having a hard time with it as Melinda has of late. Nine months ago I was not afraid of it and thought I had could to understand the CD side of myself but I know now that I am still not happy inside of myself with being a CD. I have lost a lot of my self confidence both on the male and CD side.

I wish that I could just kill that side of me as I did other things as for example my alcohol problem. I still have to fight that at times, but that is under super stressful times. I can't decide why I can't kill this side of me.

Oh Well I am running on again. allowing my inner self the clear its problems out of its mind. I have always believed that we have 3 parts or more that make us up. The outer self, the true inner self, and the self we want to be. The outer self is a hard, trustworthy, great, man that people want to know. Which is not what I have, have most of it but I am super afraid of groups of people and I am very much a loner since Nam. The true inner self is to be self confident and know who I am. Which I have not had since Nam. Well you can predict what I want to be, I want what I was before Nam and being a Sniper. I want to like myself again, be self confident and just be happy with what I truly am. I know it will include being a CD for I have been since I was in High School, I just did not know it for what it was.

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Post by DonnaT »

I've got things in two of the nightstand drawers and my dresser drawers.

If I was neat with my things, I reckon I could get it all, almost, in three dresser drawers.
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Post by Jadeanne »

Hi all,

I started counting the drawers in the 2 regular chests of drawers, lingerie chest, and and 2 plastic drawer sets that have primarily my own femme stuff:

5 drawer lingerie chest (narrow drawers), one for opened and used stockings and other hosiery, one for bras, 2 for petticoats and hosiery packages, one for foundation garments.

Wide drawers from 2 dressers:

a wide drawer for panties, slips, corsetry, femme handkerchiefs, maid aprons.

a wide drawer for tops.

a wide drawer for mostly skirts and some male clothing.


4 short drawers in 2 6 drawer plastic units:

2 for jewelry (also male jewelry)

1 for cosmetics.

1 for fake boobs (3 pairs, homemade), accessories.

I'm not counting our closets or drawers of male items, or any of my wife's storage (I can fit into anything of hers except shoes and have her permission to borrow whatever I want).

Beauty,

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Post by Conie Sue »

i have a trunk full,a tall dresser7drawers,a nite stand,and the bottom of a3by6 foot closet , i can't throw out anything anymore, except old pantyhose and really streched out panties, that reminds me i said i was going to clean out and organinize the closet this winter, ok i ready put in the closet i don't mind a bit lol :twisted: conie sue :shock:
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re whats in your closet

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dear beauty,well i have the same problem as all the other girls ,my dresser has five drawers and two of them are my girlie things i also have a desk and in that i hace one large draw that holds my corsets,then i have a pull out draw under my bed that contains my girdles and stockings .last but not least is my closet .this i share with my wife .i have all my skirts and dresses in these two large closets .one side is mine and the other sise is hers i.i the bottom i have all my heels and on a shelf i have more stockings and sweaters.as for boy stuff ,well just a bit to get to work .i guess i am more girl than guy which i really love being,...all my love phylis anne :) 8) :mrgreen:
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Post by Amelie-Laveau »

I am not very organized, my fem clothes are mixed with the other clothes.
I have socks and tights together. T-shirts and fem tops together. And some jeans and skirts together.
Like Jadeanne, I have one chester drawer soley for make-up.

I also have a pile of clothes in the corner of my room, containing both fem and male clothes.
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Post by Violet »

Just recently, I found that I can no longer pack all of my clothings and jewelleries into one good-sized toolbox. I have dresses hanging now; I also have shoes and boots which I need to find a travel case for, a slimpack for makeup, and bags full of hair accessories which I again have to find a good container for.
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Post by Sally »

Well there are drawers and there are drawers, some I wear and some I store my drawers in. Sorry about that. ##oo## .

I have my own chest of drawers and my own side of the wall to wall wardrobe, although sometimes garments do get mixed up with my wifes', we do share at times.

But, I'm also like you Beauty, I can remember back to the days when it was one or two garments hidden in the shed and my mother had all sorts of suggestions as to why I spent so much time out there.

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Post by Merinda »

I have bits and pieces here and there in drawers and plastic containers, my wardrobe is a his and hers

hers behind the left door
his behind the right

in 2003 her side pertruded into most of his , and thats likely to happen again
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Post by CJ »

Hi all,

Well, I haven't purged in years so I currently face a little bit of a storage space problem. :lol: Fortunately, I have a huge (and I mean HUGE) locker just outside my back balcony. I've stored a few boxes of femme things in that locker. Inside, my bedroom closet is stuffed with hanging dresses, skirts, blouses, slacks, and assorted sleepwear. (It's come to the point where I have to hang two or three skirts on the same hanger!) About ten inches of hanger space is devoted to my boy mode stuff--jeans and shirts, mostly.

As for my chest of drawers, it's a big one with five drawers. All five drawers are packed with femme clothes (two for underwear--I'm a fan of girdles and all-in-ones... stuff that takes up a bit of room). One drawer holds all my stockings and pantyhose. One for sweaters and tops. Finally, one for shorts and assorted femme items. In this top drawer, I keep a small place for my male underwear and socks.

On the dresser top, I keep my jewelry, wigs, and a variety of representations of the female form--some stylized, others not--such as dolls and statuettes. I also have a three-foot high bookshelf standing there (I'm running out of space for my books as quickly as I'm running out of space for my femme clothing. :shock: ) I keep my makeup in two organizers in the bathroom, on top of the toilet tank as well as in the bathroom cupboards.

What's odd about all this is that, although I'm surrounded by the accoutrements of my femme self and although everything is at hand, within easy reach, I just don't dress that often. I guess I find it reassuring to know that, well, it's just there, you know? One thing I do need to buy eventually, is a standing mirror. That might be useful, at some point.

That, and another dresser. :P

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Post by Jessie »

Well I am kind of messy so for a while I had a lot of clothes just sitting on floor and the chair in my bedroom but this morning I started butting that stuff away. Then I counted I have two closets one for a male side one for a female side. Then there are three drawers I have filled with fem undies, pantyhose and then tops (that you usualy do not hang up) in any case I have a lot and well I sort of like it that way.

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Post by Kerri »

Im Messie just like Jessie,

I have had several purges recently and chucked most of my gear from twenty years ago. Some of it at any rate. My shoes are almost all twenty years old.

Its well spread out too; I have a case in the loft; one drawer, two shelfs, a small wardrobe, some of my SO wardrobe, and a pillow case full of tights and bra's in my drab robe.

I dont use much make-up; I threw out a load recently which had fossilized. What I do have I found my daughter was using, i even found my son's girlfriend borrowed some at Christmas (she doesnt know).

Mostly I have wigs and shoes, about seven of each, I think!

I'm a messy Hector.

tara

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