New SO member

Amber(SO) · Post by **Amber(SO)** » Thu Jan 15, 2004 12:22 am

Hi, I'm Kyra's wife. New to ALL of this, but OK with it too. Call me Amber.

S. Lisa Smith · Post by **S. Lisa Smith** » Thu Jan 15, 2004 1:10 am

Hi and welcome. We have some active SO's on the board and hopefully you will find answers to any questions and concerns. I expect that you have incites that can help them and us also.

I am told that your feelings about the secrecy and failure to disclose (mentioned in another thread) are very common. From our (the CD's point of view) it's hard to 'fess up because of our fear of rejection (and worse) by our spouse. I'm glad that your husband has finally decided to tell you and I'm glad that you ae trying to help. Many on the board are not as lucky as he is! Again, welcome!

LeftyRainbow(SO) · Post by **LeftyRainbow(SO)** » Thu Jan 15, 2004 2:58 am

Hello and glad to have you in the forum...from one SO to another

RikkiOfLA · Post by **RikkiOfLA** » Thu Jan 15, 2004 5:35 am

Hi Amber and

to the Forum!

Curly(SO) · Post by **Curly(SO)** » Thu Jan 15, 2004 6:58 am

Hi Amber, nice to see another SO on the forum!
My husband also told me about his crossdressing after we were married. I can accept the reasons why he kept it hidden, but I would urge people who are still keeping it a secret from their SO's, not to! The reason being you will save your SO a lot of heartache, when they come across items of womens clothing, lingerie and receipts. (No matter how good you think you are at hiding stuff, we will still see stuff). I found stuff on numerous occasions, and it was horrible because I thought my hubby had been with another woman, or had been buying presents for another woman, and some of the excuses I heard certainly made me worry even more!
Curly(SO).

Nancy · Post by **Nancy** » Thu Jan 15, 2004 8:25 am

Amber, I hope you find this forum both helpfull and fun as well as just a nice place to visit.

Stephanie Higgins · Post by **Stephanie Higgins** » Thu Jan 15, 2004 5:10 pm

Amber

Stephanie

Carolynn · Post by **Carolynn** » Thu Jan 15, 2004 8:01 pm

Hi Amber.

I'm so happy you and Kyra have joined us.

I think your support for Kyra is awesome (as Stephanie would say) and I believe you will enjoy the interaction with the thoughtful people on this forum. I wish you well on your planned outing with Kira.

Carolynn · Post by **Carolynn** » Thu Jan 15, 2004 8:06 pm

I wish you well on your planned outing with Kira.

I mean Kyra. I had a young student (now colleague) who spelled her name the other way!

GalicianGirl(SO) · Post by **GalicianGirl(SO)** » Thu Jan 15, 2004 9:48 pm

Hi Amber,

Welcome to our forum. It's really great to have another SO join our little group.

Sharon(SO)

CJ · Post by CJ » Sat Jan 17, 2004 10:38 am

Hi Amber,

Welcome to a good place.

I hope you and Kyra enjoy yourselves and post often.

Love,
CJ

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Mon Jan 19, 2004 6:45 am

Hi Amber,
Welcome!!!

I think SO's input on this site is one of the biggest and best things.

Also, thanks for letting Kyra come over and post!

Beauty

Amber(SO) · Post by **Amber(SO)** » Tue Jan 27, 2004 12:58 am

FYI, I don't "let" Kyra do anything, she is her own free spirit.

I am really enjoying this forum. Everyone is so kind and warmhearted. I just wanted to say thank you to all who have welcomed Kyra and I so generously.

XOXO, Amber

CJ · Post by CJ » Tue Jan 27, 2004 7:30 am

Hi Amber,

I think you're both your own free spirits!

It's great to have you both onboard. I'm glad you enjoy it as much as we do.

It's a tremendous boost when you know you're not alone, that there's an actual community out there whose members have wallked a path similar to yours.

Love,
Christina

Oregon (SO) · Post by **Oregon (SO)** » Tue Jan 27, 2004 9:57 am

SO cool to have another SO join this little gang.

I have not posted much lately, as I am less the 2 weeks from the due date of our baby, but hope you find some answers and freinds and if you need to vent/talk or what ever you will find lots of support here.

Hugs
kathy in canada

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